Once again I am neglecting this blog. Shame on me! I am trying to do better, but real life keeps interfering, darn it!
Wednesday was a little frustrating because some of the riders didn’t arrive until the lesson was supposed to begin. I hate when the group lessons run that late, because then I don’t get home until way past my bedtime, and I have to get up at 4:30. I run strictly on caffeine Thursday and Friday, because Thursday is a very late night for me, too. What I don’t do to improve at my sport…
I rode Nyk on Wednesday, and excuse my language, but he was a little prick. He thought we were training for the Belmont, and not for Gold Cup. He was heavy on the bridle, won’t give on the bit, and raced around and around at the canter. M made some tack adjustments, and I tried cantering him again. Then he went a little slower than race car speed, but he was still too fast, especially going the second way.
We tried to work through the equestrian team pattern, and once again, Nyk was behaving like a stubborn little pony. He would not whoa. I was getting so frustrated with him. I don’t like doing patterns in the first place, and he wasn’t making me like them any better. Whoa means STOP, but I guess when your brain is the size of a walnut, you occasionally forget that.
Thursday I went to Barn #2, and had a very informative lesson with guest instructor. S was away at a horse show, and she had a trainer who is more involved with Morgans fill in. We will call her S2. She started by having me sit on Lucky, and then she went over proper leg position, arm position, and other form vs function points. Then she had me head out to the rail at a posting trot.
This was a very important lesson because S2 emphasized how to use your legs and seat, and to keep your hands and fingers light on the reins. I know that is the goal of being an effective rider, but sometimes I just clamp down on the bridle, especially when I am riding Blondie. She just wants to bury her head, and I think that I have to carry her along. All I am really doing then is keeping her heavy on the bridle and making her worse. One of these days I’m actually going to be able to put all of this theory into practice. When, I don’t know, but one of these days!!
Sunday, both of the ponies were very good. I rode Blondie first, in blinkers. I am going to buy a hood, because they are so useful. I don’t have to worry about her getting a burr up her butt and getting scared at dust specks. We can actually get a good ride in!
It was so dusty in the arena that we took Nyk outside to drive him. He was so good! He walked when I asked, and he trotted at a nice, pleasure trot speed. No racing. So nice.
Saturday I went to Sarah’s graduation, and had the added bonus of seeing Krystal get her diploma. I did not realize that they went to the same high school! Too bad I did not get a chance to congratulate her during the festivities. That will have to wait until her party on Saturday.
Today was not a good day. First phone call of the day was a co-worker’s mother calling to tell us he passed away over the weekend. He was 25 years old! WTF!! I have DDR’ed with this kid, gone to the Indian buffet and gotten sushi with him. I can’t believe he’s gone, and I feel so, so bad for his family. It was so unexpected. My prayers and thoughts go out to his family. Things like this really make you think about how fragile and fleeting life can be. Enjoy it. Chase your dreams. Don’t give up, because you may never get another chance to make them come true.